Maine coon cats are known for their friendly, affectionate nature and are often considered great companions for people of all ages; but are female maine coon cats more affectionate than their male counterpart?

Before you read on, if you are new to the maine coon cat breed, you might want to check out my maine coon guide which provides a detailed overview of the breed.

The maine coon cat is one of the oldest natural breeds originating from North America, and is known for their large size, thick and fluffy coat, and distinct wild and rugged look. You might have even heard of their dog-like personality which is one of the reasons they are so popular.

In this blog, I  will explore the characteristics of female maine coon cats and you can decide for yourself if they are more affectionate than their male counterparts.

I will reflect on my own experience, and look at scientific studies, breeder’s observations and other owners’ experiences to better understand the topic.

Are Female Maine Coon Cats More Affectionate? 

There is no one answer that fits all as to why certain cats, including female maine coon cats, are more affectionate than their male counterparts. 

Some experts believe that a cat’s temperament is influenced by a combination of genetics, socialization, and environment. Additionally, it’s important to remember that each animal has their own personality and it’s not possible to generalize the entire breed.

Each Maine Coon cat brings their own unique qualities and quirks, regardless of sex, so regardless of what gender you choose, you are sure to be showered with love and affection. 

With that being said, however, let’s look at the most common reasons why female Maine Coon might be more affectionate. 

Female Maine Coons are Well Socialized 

Image shows two maine coon cats cuddling - female maine coon cats are known to be more affectionate
Lagertha, my female Maine coon is well-socialized with Ragnar and has been around kittens, cats and children from birth

In general, a well-socialized cat is one that is exposed to a variety of people, animals, and environments during its critical socialization period, which is typically between 2 and 7 weeks of age. This early exposure can help the cat to develop a positive and relaxed attitude towards new experiences and people. They are also more likely to grow up to be friendly and outgoing adults.

It is also important to note that socialization isn’t a one-time event, it’s a continuous process throughout a cat’s life. As long as the cat is exposed to new experiences and people, it will continue to adapt and be more sociable.

One possible reason why female maine coon cats may be more affectionate than their male counterpart is that they are well-socialized and have had positive interactions with humans from a young age. 

If you are a maine coon owner already, you will know already that the breed in general, is known for its friendly and sociable personalities. They are known to be great with children and other pets, and they enjoy spending time with their owners. 

Female maine coons are particularly known to be well-socialized, meaning they are comfortable interacting with other cats and people, perhaps more so than the male maine coon. Additionally, the breed itself is known for its gentle and affectionate nature which could also be a reason for its friendliness.

However, it is important to keep in mind that each cat is an individual and can have different levels of sociability. Some female maine coons may be more outgoing and sociable, while others may be more reserved and shy. 

It took several months, close to a year for my female maine coon to be comfortable with us. She kept her distance and approached only on her own accord. However now, she is super affectionate and loves to come up for cuddles. Patience is very important with a maine coon, especially a kitten. 

Female Maine Coons Desire Human Companionship 

Lagertha loves human companionship but this took several months to a year to gain her trust.

Female maine coon cats may be affectionate is that they have a strong desire for human companionship. This could be due to their genetic makeup, as some cat breeds are known for being more social and interactive with humans than others. 

Additionally, if a female maine coon cat has been raised in a household where she is given a lot of attention and affection, she may come to associate humans with positive experiences, which can lead to her becoming more affectionate. Female maine coons are known to crave human companionship and can be particularly affectionate and nurturing towards their owners. 

Their strong desire for human companionship is rooted in their history as a working cat breed. They were originally bred to hunt and work alongside humans on farms and in homes, which has resulted in a strong bond between the breed and humans.

It’s no surprise that female maine coons have a strong desire to be near their owners and may follow them around the house or seek out their attention.

Each cat is an individual and can have different levels of socialization and affection. Some female maine coons may be more outgoing and sociable, while others may be more reserved and shy. However, most of them crave human companionship and enjoy spending time with their owners.

Female Maine Coon Have A Strong Maternal Instinct 

Lagertha is always the first to groom Ragnar. This is her strong maternal instinct kicking in.

Female Maine Coons have a strong maternal instinct because they are naturally inclined to care for their young. The maternal instinct is an innate behaviour that is present in most mammals, and it is responsible for the nurturing and protection of their offspring. In cats, this behaviour is triggered by hormonal changes that occur during pregnancy and after giving birth.

The maternal instinct is important for the survival of the species, as it ensures that the young are protected and cared for until they are able to survive on their own. In the wild, the maternal instinct helps to ensure that the kittens are protected from predators and that they receive enough food and care.

If you already own a female maine coon like myself, you might have already noticed that they have a strong maternal instinct. This is why. 

Do you feel that your female maine coon has a strong desire to care for and protect its human “kittens,”? They are used to being around and taking care of others, so they may tend to be more social and interactive with humans. This trait may be passed down to the next generation, making them more likely to be friendly.

An interesting fact you may not know is that a female cat’s maternal instinct can be triggered even if the cat is not pregnant. This is known as pseudopregnancy, which happens when hormonal changes in the cat’s body mimic the changes that occur during pregnancy. This can cause the cat to display behaviours associated with motherhood, such as lactating and caring for inanimate objects as if they were their kittens.

Female Maine Coons Love Playing Games 

Lagertha loves to play game including Fetch which is probably her favourite

You might have noticed that your female maine coon cat loves to play. In my case, Lagertha loves to play fetch, and she could play it all day long. 

Maine coon cats, in general, are known for their playful and curious nature. They enjoy playing with toys and exploring their environment. Female maine coon cats have similar personalities.

Playing fetch is a natural hunting behaviour that can be taught to cats and they may enjoy playing it. The game of fetch involves throwing a toy and having the cat retrieve it, this can be a great way to entertain your cat and also to provide them with physical and mental stimulation. Cats have different personalities and interests however, so not all cats will enjoy playing fetch. Some female maine coon cats may enjoy playing fetch and be very good at it, while others may not have as much interest in it.

Playing fetch can be a great way for cats to bond with their owners. As you spend time playing with your cat, you can get to know each other’s personalities and preferences. This can also help to strengthen the bond between the cat and the owner.

Female Maine Coon Have Noticeable Hormonal Differences 

Maine Coon cats are known for their friendly, affectionate nature and are often considered great companions for people of all ages. They are one of the oldest natural breeds in North America, known for their large size, thick and fluffy coat, and distinct wild and rugged look. 

One question that many people have when considering getting a Maine Coon cat is whether female Maine Coon cats are more affectionate than male Maine Coon cats. This is certainly a question I pondered over before adopting my female Maine Coon Lagertha. 

In this blog, I  will explore the characteristics of female Maine Coon cats and you can decide for yourself if they are more affectionate than their male counterparts.
I will reflect on my own experience, and look at scientific studies, breeder's observations and other owners' experiences to better understand the topic.
Are Female Maine Coon Cats More Affectionate? 
There is one answer that fits all as to why certain cats, including female Maine Coon cats, are more affectionate than their male counterparts. 

Some experts believe that a cat's temperament is influenced by a combination of genetics, socialization, and environment. Additionally, it's important to remember that each animal has their own personality and it's not possible to generalize the entire breed.

Each Maine Coon cat brings their own unique qualities and quirks, regardless of sex, so regardless of what gender you choose, you are sure to be showered with love and affection. 

With that being said, however, let’s look at the most common reasons why female Maine Coon might be more affectionate. 
Female Maine Coons are Well Socialized 

In general, a well-socialized cat is one that is exposed to a variety of people, animals, and environments during its critical socialization period, which is typically between 2 and 7 weeks of age. This early exposure can help the cat to develop a positive and relaxed attitude towards new experiences and people are more likely to grow up to be friendly and outgoing adults.

It is also important to note that socialization isn't a one-time event, it's a continuous process throughout a cat's life. As long as the cat is exposed to new experiences and people, it will continue to adapt and be more sociable.

One possible reason why female Maine Coon cats may be more affectionate than their male counterpart is that they are well-socialized and have had positive interactions with humans from a young age. 



If you are a Maine Coon owner already, you will know already that the breed in general, is known for its friendly and sociable personalities. They are known to be great with children and other pets, and they enjoy spending time with their owners. 

Female Maine Coons are particularly known to be well-socialized, meaning they are comfortable interacting with other cats and people, perhaps more so than the male maine coon. Additionally, the breed itself is known for its gentle and affectionate nature which could also be a reason for its friendliness.

However, it is important to keep in mind that each cat is an individual and can have different levels of sociability. Some female Maine Coons may be more outgoing and sociable, while others may be more reserved and shy. 

It took several months, close to a year for my female maine coon to be comfortable with us. She kept her distance and approached only on her own accord. However now, she is super affectionate and loves to come up for cuddles. Patience is very important with a maine coon, especially a kitten. 

They Desire Human Companionship 
Female Maine Coon cats may be affectionate is that they have a strong desire for human companionship. This could be due to their genetic makeup, as some cat breeds are known for being more social and interactive with humans than others. 

Additionally, if a female Maine Coon cat has been raised in a household where she is given a lot of attention and affection, she may come to associate humans with positive experiences, which can lead to her becoming more affectionate. Female Maine Coons are known to crave human companionship and can be particularly affectionate and nurturing towards their owners. 

Their strong desire for human companionship is rooted in their history as a working cat breed. They were originally bred to hunt and work alongside humans on farms and in homes, which has resulted in a strong bond between the breed and humans.

It’s no surprise that female maine coons have a strong desire to be near their owners and may follow them around the house or seek out their attention.

It is important to note that each cat is an individual and can have different levels of socialization and affection. Some female Maine Coons may be more outgoing and sociable, while others may be more reserved and shy. However, most of them crave human companionship and enjoy spending time with their owners.



Strong Maternal Instinct 
Female Maine Coons have a strong maternal instinct because they are naturally inclined to care for their young. The maternal instinct is an innate behaviour that is present in most mammals, and it is responsible for the nurturing and protection of their offspring. In cats, this behaviour is triggered by hormonal changes that occur during pregnancy and after giving birth.

The maternal instinct is important for the survival of the species, as it ensures that the young are protected and cared for until they are able to survive on their own. In the wild, the maternal instinct helps to ensure that the kittens are protected from predators and that they receive enough food and care.

If you already own a female maine coon like myself, you might have already noticed that they have a strong maternal instinct. This is why. 

Do you feel that your female maine coon has a strong desire to care for and protect their human "kittens,"? They are used to being around and taking care of others, so they may tend to be more social and interactive with humans. This trait may be passed down to the next generation, making them more likely to be friendly.

An interesting fact you may not know is that a female cat’s maternal instinct can be triggered even if the cat is not pregnant. This is known as pseudopregnancy, which happens when hormonal changes in the cat's body mimic the changes that occur during pregnancy. This can cause the cat to display behaviours associated with motherhood, such as lactating and caring for inanimate objects as if they were their kittens.
Love For Playing Games 
You might have noticed that your female maine coon cat loves to play. In my case, Lagertha loves to play fetch, and she could play it all day long. 

Maine Coon cats, in general, are known for their playful and curious nature. They enjoy playing with toys and exploring their environment. Female Maine Coon cats have similar personalities.

Playing fetch is a natural hunting behaviour that can be taught to cats and they may enjoy playing it. The game of fetch involves throwing a toy and having the cat retrieve it, this can be a great way to entertain your cat and also to provide them with physical and mental stimulation.

It's important to keep in mind that cats have different personalities and interests, so not all cats will enjoy playing fetch. Some female Maine Coon cats may enjoy playing fetch and be very good at it, while others may not have as much interest in it.

It's also worth noting that playing fetch can be a great way for cats to bond with their owners. As you spend time playing with your cat, you can get to know each other's personalities and preferences. This can also help to strengthen the bond between the cat and the owner.
Hormonal Differences 

Female maine coon cats are often known to be more affectionate and attentive to their owners, and they may be more likely to cuddle and seek out human interaction. 

Female cats produce the hormone oxytocin, also known as the "cuddle hormone" which is responsible for social bonding and affection. This hormone is responsible for nurturing and protective behaviour in female cats, which can make them more affectionate.

Oxytocin is a chemical that is produced in the brain and is associated with social bonding and affection. Studies have shown that when a cat is petted or stroked, their brain releases oxytocin, which can lead to a feeling of relaxation and contentment.

Research has shown that not only cats but also other animals such as dogs and even humans release oxytocin when they are petted. This is because the act of petting triggers the release of oxytocin in the brain, which can lead to a feeling of relaxation and contentment.

It's important to note that while female maine coon cats may produce more oxytocin when petted, it's not a gender-based difference, but it's more related to the individual cat's personality and behaviour. Some cats may release more oxytocin when petted than others, regardless of their gender.
Conclusion 

In conclusion, the belief that female Maine Coon cats are more affectionate than male Maine Coon cats is largely based on observations and personal experiences of cat owners and breeders. There are several factors that can contribute to this perception, such as hormonal differences, maternal instincts, socialization, and gender-based stereotypes.

It's important to note that while these factors may contribute to the perception that female Maine Coon cats are more affectionate, each cat is unique and may have different personalities and behaviours. Therefore, it's essential to observe and interact with a cat before making a decision to adopt one.
Female Maine coons produce more oxytocin which may account for their affectionate nature

Female maine coon cats are often known to be more affectionate and attentive to their owners, and they may be more likely to cuddle and seek out human interaction. 

Female cats produce the hormone oxytocin, also known as the “cuddle hormone” which is responsible for social bonding and affection. This hormone is responsible for nurturing and protective behaviour in female cats, which can make them more affectionate.

Oxytocin is a chemical that is produced in the brain and is associated with social bonding and affection. Studies have shown that when a cat is petted or stroked, their brain releases oxytocin, which can lead to a feeling of relaxation and contentment.

Research has shown that not only cats but also other animals such as dogs and even humans release oxytocin when they are petted. This is because the act of petting triggers the release of oxytocin in the brain, which can lead to a feeling of relaxation and contentment.

While female maine coon cats may produce more oxytocin when petted, it’s not a gender-based difference, but it’s more related to the individual cat’s personality and behaviour. Some cats may release more oxytocin when petted than others, regardless of their gender.

Conclusion 

In conclusion, the belief that female maine coon cats are more affectionate than male maine coon cats is largely based on observations and personal experiences of cat owners and breeders. There are several factors that can contribute to this perception, such as hormonal differences, maternal instincts, socialization, and gender-based stereotypes.

It’s important to note that while these factors may contribute to the perception that female maine coon cats are more affectionate, each cat is unique and may have different personalities and behaviours. Therefore, it’s essential to observe and interact with a cat before making a decision to adopt one.